Remember that love for others comes from the overflow of love for yourself, Pisces. Whether in your career or relationships, there will never be a good enough reason to spread yourself so thin that you neglect to take care of yourself. You’re not one to keep count, but the moon in Libra will force you to do so and to start setting boundaries for yourself and how much you give to things other than yourself. Do not fear disappointing others by refusing to do something that you know will take too much from you, do not fear losing love when you choose to redirect it to yourself, and do not make the mistake of putting yourself second so often that others have developed the same mentality.

It’s time to snap out of your daydream and idealized version of how things should be, and there’s no better song to help you do that than Chairlift’s funky self-care anthem, which aptly opens with: “Nobody will help you ’til you go and help yourself / Take it and don’t wait for it to come from someone else.”

If you’re looking for a love to make you whole again, it’s time to step up and choose yourself. It’s time to quit handing your power over to someone you don’t even know. It’s time to stop allowing other people to control your feelings, and determine your self-worth. It’s time to reclaim your power.

Shani Jay

Listen to your exhaustion, your insecurity, or your dependency and you will see who it is in the world that needs the most love from you.