When you think of love that has gone wrong, it might be a hard pill to swallow to find that the common denominator could be you. Love is not something that just happens, Virgo. It’s something you choose. It’s something you allow. More than that, it’s something that will take bravery on your end. Be ready to bend the rules you have so strictly implemented on yourself in order to satsitfy the need for intimacy you have been feeling. Realize that it does not make you any less to allow yourself to be loved, and that welcoming someone into your life is not synonymous to being dependent.

So much in love is uncertain, Virgo, and that scares you. Hozier shares these same fears, reflects on them, and chooses the joy of love anyway. “Honey, just put your sweet lips on my lips / We could just kiss like real people do.”

If it scares you, it might be a good thing to try.

Seth Godin

You are so used to being in control, but consider that letting someone else fill in the pages might be the key to helping you create the ending to the story you’ve been trying to write instead of forcing it upon everyone else.