No one can help you with the needs you don’t let them know about, Aries. As this time will bring about emotions that gradually begin to pile up, you will undoubtedly feel overwhelmed, and then come to the realization that this might be too much for one person to bear. The good news is: you don’t have to do. Trust that those who are around you are for you. Give them the access they need to be of help. Verbalize your needs, your fears, your worries, your hurts, and anything that you will need to lighten your load.

Listen to: “Little Of Your Love” by HAIM

Must-watch: About Schmidt (2002)

Keep in mind:

Are you telling the truth about what you feel? What you know? Who you are? Or, are you sugar coating the truth to yourself and others to avoid hurting their feelings and putting yourself on the spot? When you do not tell the truth, the lie controls your life.

Iyanla Vanzant
Art by Paul Richmond

It’s true. What you have to carry and figure out is indeed too much for one person to bear. That’s why you must channel the strength of your loved ones to help you navigate the difficulty and the confusion. It doesn’t make you weak. You’ll find that this actually brings about a level of growth that you never knew was possible. As we begin to enter Libra season, acknowledge your need for connections to both keep you anchored, but also help you go farther.