It hasn’t been an easy year, has it, Libra? And when things go wrong, your tendency is to shift the blame on yourself, counting the ways you were wrong and constantly apologizing for them. It is time for you to get out of this pit. The bad news is: it starts with you.

Learn to forgive yourself for these mistakes. There’s nothing else you can do for them at this point. And all the apologizing and over-analyzing you’ve been doing haven’t been helping, either.

Listen to: “Ornament – Felt Piano” by Kiah Victoria

Keep in mind:

One of the most challenging things I’ve had to learn is that healing must be intentional. There is no one golden day that comes and saves you from all your misery. Healing is a practice. You have to decide that it’s what you want to do and actively do it. You have to make a habit out of it. Once I learned that, I only looked back to see how far I came.

Art by David Galletly

The time calls for action. Take small steps bearing the weight of the pain that you have long allowed to incapacitate you. Yes, Libra, you’ll have to bear it. That’s the hard part. It won’t go away completely. That’s something you might have had to learn recently. That’s why we begin with small steps. Day-by-day, until they don’t feel as heavy anymore.